Meeting new people in college or grad school is exciting, but it also requires caution.
Whether it's your first match or an in-person date, remember: your safety always comes first.
Although we can't control other people's actions, there are steps you can follow to enjoy Umatch in a safer and more relaxed way.
Even if someone says they're going through an emergency, don't send money via transfer or any other means.
Never share information such as passwords, verification codes, or card details.
Don't reveal your dorm, apartment, or housing address, nor your university routine (such as class or internship schedules).
If you have children, avoid sharing information about them, even if it seems like a casual conversation.
While getting to know someone, prefer exchanging messages within Umatch.
This helps maintain safety and allows you to report any suspicious behavior.
Be wary of people who claim to study at your university but are "traveling" or "stuck" somewhere else and ask for financial help.
If the person avoids video calls or in-person meetings, it could be a scam.
Examples of situations that should be reported:
Exchange plenty of messages before scheduling a date.
If possible, have a video call first to confirm who the person is.
Prefer coffee shops, bars near campus, cultural events on campus, or public places in the city.
Avoid initial meetings at dorms, student housing, or apartments.
Tell a friend or classmate where you're going and with whom.
Keep your phone charged and with signal.
If possible, go with your own transportation or use ride-hailing apps.
This way, you can leave at any moment if you don't feel comfortable.
Alcoholic beverages and other substances can affect your perception.
At college parties, refuse pressure to consume more than you want.
Never leave your drink unattended at parties or bars.
Accept drinks only from bartenders or servers.
It's 100% acceptable to end the date early if something seems off.
If you're at a campus event, look for security or peers.
If traveling for conferences, exchanges, or academic weeks, research the laws and safety at your destination — especially if you are part of the LGBTQ+ community.
In risky locations, consider hiding your profile on Umatch.
Use condoms and, whenever possible, stay up to date with HPV and hepatitis vaccines.
STIs don't always show symptoms.
Get tested regularly at your university health center or nearby clinics.
Before getting physically involved, talk openly about testing and protection.
Consent must be clear, continuous, and can be withdrawn at any time.
If the person is under the influence of alcohol or drugs and cannot consent, do not proceed.
Do you have more questions?
Register a request